Shared Responsibility
There is a certain amount of responsibility that goes along
with sharing information of a psychic nature, I have never agreed with psychics
who make the decision to tell a client that a loved one who is missing has
crossed the bridge into the Summerland, another words that their loved one is
deceased, it is highly irresponsible for a practitioner, psychic, medium or
anyone else who utilizes the esoteric arts to draw forth energy to pass that
information along to a client, psychics are not exempt from human error, and
just as good and bad exist here in the earth plane, it also exists in the realm
of spirit and often times a disembodied being that has decided to come forth
with the news that a loved one has departed to the afterlife is mischievous and
could be misleading the psychic with the information that is being shared!
Now, I do not believe that in most cases this is true, but there is always a slim possibility that one may happen upon a Loki in the outer realm and as we all know a Loki can have a pretty twisted sense of humor, and in cases where you are dealing with distraught relatives of the missing, it is not a very good idea to rely solely on information that is being channeled, channeling is a technique that is very useful in a lot of situations, but a seasoned psychic will know the difference between rock-solid information that is coming through and iffy information that may lead you down a road that is better less traveled!
There is a difference between channeling information and
giving a psychic reading, when I give a reading I am not necessarily channeling,
I use many different techniques when I give a client a reading and there are a
couple of areas that are a big “no, no” and telling the distraught parents
of a missing eleven-year old child that he is dead is one of them, now, I do not
believe that just because someone was wrong about the information that he or she
decided to share with a client is necessarily a fake or not gifted at their
craft, but any psychic who passes along that kind of information and gets it
wrong will certainly glow less in the realm of psychic excellence, and another
thing I charge a nominal fee for a session with me, but I don’t care who you
are or how many talk-shows you have been on, a reading shouldn’t cost in
excess of seven hundred dollars, I mean come on a reading is a reading and we
all get dressed one pant-leg at a time and therefore in my opinion there is not
a psychic on the planet who should be charging that kind of money!
In the first place, I do not charge for the reading, I
charge for my time, I cannot charge for that in which I do not own, esoteric
energy, the same goes for spell casting, I do not charge for the spell, I charge
for the time that it is going to take for me to work with my client, I charge
for the supplies that I have to use and I charge for the items that are being
shipped as well as the shipping and handling fees that go along with it, but, I
do not charge for that which to most seems elusive, and psychic energy to the
ordinary individual is a very hard concept to grasp and while energy is energy,
it is not mine or yours to sell.
If you are reading this article chances are you have been
hanging around my site for a while and by now you should know that I am a
straight arrow, as straight of an arrow as a gay man can be, I just have a habit
of being brutally honest and telling it like it is, in fact I have had clients
complain and tell me that they wish I could have candy-coated the information
before passing it along to them, but that is just not my style, however, I also
know the difference between being responsible at what I do and being
irresponsible and totally crushing the hope of someone who is hurting and
seeking answers, guidance and perhaps a lifeline of faith to hold on to, and in
cases where a relative of a missing child or an adult for that matter comes to
me I take extra precautions to make certain that the information that I give to
them is accurate and correct to the best of my ability and I do not emphatically
make statements that I am not prepared to stand behind, with that said, I also
do not believe in giving a client false hope, it doesn’t matter what the
reason may be that someone seeks me out for help, if I feel that I cannot help
them I will tell them right off the bat, because I am responsible for any
information of a psychic nature that I share with you or with anyone else, in
fact an ethical psychic will always weigh the karmic ramifications before
blatantly over-stepping boundaries or straying into a gray area, and health
issues are also a huge gray area, psychics are not doctors, I do not care if
they call themselves a metaphysician unless they have a degree hanging on the
wall that qualifies them to practice medicine they shouldn’t be dispensing
medical advice, sure, in situations where health concerns come up in a reading I
may convey them to a client, but I also tell my client to seek the medical
attention of a licensed physician which is the most responsible thing that I can
do for them.
Now, personally I do not like going to the doctor and I do
take a holistic approach when it comes to my health and for the most part I eat
right and try to exercise often, although I am not as physically active as I
once was, I do try and take responsibility for my own health and although I
don’t like going to the doctor I do go when it is necessary. A good example of
what I have been talking about are the healing circles that I host, I have an
extensive list of clients who have requested for themselves or their loved ones
to be placed in my circle and of course there is never a charge for anyone to be
placed on my healing list and I encourage everyone who is on my list to go to
their doctor, and trust me it is not just lip service, if you are ill there is
no harm in working on yourself from a metaphysical standpoint, but you must also
exhaust all medical possibilities and should never solely rely on any
faith-based healing, faith healings have their place and I have had people in my
life who benefited greatly from a faith healing, in fact my Grandfather was
given six months to live by his cancer doctor, a healing was performed by a
group of Witches, which back then I was a baby Witch, my Grandfather lived for
almost ten years after that, so you see I believe in who I am, what I do and
most importantly I embrace my path in life and I have an unshakeable belief in
the Powers That Be!
Psychics, Witches, and Spell Casters alike are not the only
ones who have a responsibility when it comes to the esoteric arts, you as a
client and consumer have to be responsible to yourself as well, all too often
people contact me in reference to reuniting and in some of the cases not all of
them, they will often convey that they feel taken advantage of by some
unscrupulous individual making outlandish guarantees and as I stated earlier if
you have taken the time to read through my site you should have already learned
that I am a straight arrow and I do not offer any guarantees whatsoever, other
than the guarantee that I will treat you with the respect and decency that you
deserve and I will do my level best to assist you in manifesting the desired
change within your life, assistance is all that I can offer, I can do this in
many different ways and yes weaving energy for you (Spell Casting) is one of the
ways that I can help you achieve your desired goals, but it is not the only
method that I employ, I am a firm believer that true change comes from within,
most of us already have the answers to our most complex issues contained within
our own Psychic DNA-blueprint and many of the situations that we deal with in
human form were predetermined before we arrived on the planet or in physical
form, here is a good example that I am certain that many of you out there
including myself can relate to, in cases where love has gone bad and a loved one
has made the decision to move on and the partner left behind tries to move
forward but the pain is unbearable and it doesn’t really matter how hard they
try to rise above it they just can’t move forward with their life, one of the
main reasons that I have found for the inability of the partner left behind to
move on is because the relationship ended prematurely or was cut short by some
uncaring individual who decided that they would meddle where they had no
business to do so, thereby creating negative karma with all involved and cutting
the life experience of the souls of
the couple who were intruded upon short and preventing them from completely
fulfilling their life-path and karmic obligations to one another, therefore
creating a stain or smudge upon the Psychic DNA of the couple who were torn
apart!
I am a Witch and I believe that the Goddess has gifted us
with the ability to weave magic and to create or recreate our life path as we so
choose, but I also agree that we must be ethical and responsible in all of our
magical endeavors, to blatantly cause undue harm to another will in no doubt
create a karmic backlash that one will certainly have been better off avoiding,
everything in life that we do or participate in ultimately comes with a price
tag and if we carelessly go through life without considering the impact that we
have on one another we will one day pay the ultimate price, people who intrude
upon the relationship of another without an invitation are plotting the course
that will eventually lead to emotional bankruptcy and a huge deficit in their
karmic bank account, just as I believe in pro-choice, I also believe that we
must be prepared to accept responsibility for our actions, as a Witch I believe
that we are known for our deeds, whether the deeds are good or bad will
determine the impression that we leave on those that we interact with, as well
as the Psychic imprint that we leave upon the Universe, everything that is here
on Mother Earth is made up of a series of electrical impulses and everyone who
resides here possesses a soul-blueprint that is uniquely his or her own, a
skilled psychic and practitioner will be able to tap that blueprint and decipher
it, learn from it, often discovering the point in which the soul deviated from
its course and aiding the client enabling them to regain their composure and to
get their feet firmly replanted upon their life path.
Before you use any metaphysical website or the services of
any practitioner that advertises on the Internet you have a responsibility to
yourself to become familiar with their method of magic, in my case I am a White
Witch, you also need to know whether or not they offer guarantees for the work
that they will perform for you, in my case I offer no guarantees, and in cases
where a practitioner guarantees their work there is normally something that
smells, so trust your nose and whether you choose to work with me or anyone else
the decision to do so has to be that of your own, if you cannot comfortably
afford the services in which you seek, you are better off not seeking them in
the first place, your financial well being is that of your own, it is not my
responsibility or the responsibility of any other Psychic or Witch, although I
have discouraged many of my clients from ordering from me, and the other thing
to consider is that just as with any other business there are expenses involved,
the website has to be maintained, there are costs incurred with advertising,
phone lines, as well as the time it takes to answer calls, perform the work and
to process orders, a website is no different than your local grocery store and
just like the pharmacy, grocery store and local clothing stores do not tell you
that you are spending too much money at their places of business, it is highly
unlikely that a Psychic or Spell Casting site will tell you that they do not
want you business either, so please use your own common sense and take
responsibility for your actions.
I often find myself asking my clients who order my products
or services frequently if they can comfortably afford to do so, and I have been
told that is one of the things that sets malewitch.com apart from the rest, I am
not sure if that is true, but I for one like to sleep at night, that is when I
go to bed, I couldn’t rest too well if I were unable to separate my business
from my spirituality, you see it is the Witch in me that watches over my clients
and customers and I care far too much for my karma and for the people who seek
me out for help to ever allow myself to take advantage of someone in a
vulnerable state of mind or any state of mind as far as that is concerned, but
folks there are people out there who will take advantage of you and that is why
you must safeguard yourself and choose wisely who you pick to walk your path
with in this lifetime and another thing if you are going to have work done by
any Witch or Spell Caster do so of your own accord and make sure that you are
willing to follow the guidelines that the practitioner sets forth for you, in
the case of working with me we all know that I am a fanatic on staying focused
and positive, there is nothing that burns my butt more than for an individual
who places orders on my site and then complains that they are not seeing the
results that they have requested, in most cases where this happens the client
was doomed from the start by their own negative outlook and the approach that
they take in life and like I recall saying to someone recently I do not twist
anyone’s arm or encourage them to place orders on my site, those who do so, do
so by their own choosing and as I have always said my technique and methods of
magic is not for everyone and part of the process that I try to instill in my
clients is self empowerment, because that is an important part of any magical
process! I wish you all much light and love for 2007!
To cast a
successful spell, one must first cast off all doubt!
Blessed be
Phelan
